Friday, July 24, 2009

Dreams of a young girl

Our Christian Relief Fund roots run deepest in Kisumu, Kenya where we have had about 5 years of operating experience. The work there is centered in the Nyalenda slum, where over 500,000 people call it their neighborhood. The Ring Road Orphan's Day school has over 500 kids from 1st to 8th grade attending daily. They get 3 meals a day, a good education, healthcare, clothing, and as much love as we can give them. That is still not enough, but they seem to make do, and are thriving.

This trip we purposed to repaint the entire school building inside and out. It started out as a huge moving and cleaning project as the building was scrubbed top to bottom in anticipation of receiving a fresh coat of paint. I was put in charge of cleaning walls on the inside. One thing about these kids, they love to help. I don't know why, but they will hang around you watching you work a scrub brush and then somehow take it out of your hands to finish the job. They are not afraid of hard work, and never ever complain. I need my American kids to see this for themselves. My work crew consisted of 3 pre-teen girls. The ringleader was Marcy, a 6th grader. She and her two friends were helping me scrub the walls and remove any tape or glue remaining from the posters we took down earlier. As we worked we talked. They mostly wanted to know about life in America. They asked me about my family, my house, my kids, on and on. No details could be left out; they wanted to hear it all! So I told them what life was like in the US. They were eager to come to the US to thank their sponsors. So I started asking about their sponsors. Marcy is sponsored by a group of college students from Tennessee, her friends by individuals in Texas and Washington. Marcy told me how much she loved her sponsors and wanted them to come visit her in Kenya to see how she was doing. The girls then started talking about prior visits groups had made to Kisumu...they remembered each and every one of us by name. It was touching to hear them talk about us in such loving ways. 

I asked them one other question. I asked them what they dream about for their lives. One girl dreams to be a doctor so she can work at the local VCT (AIDS Clinic) to help her neighbors. One girl wanted to be a teacher at Ring Road or another school. Marcy wants to be an engineer. Her dream is to tear down the slum and create affordable good and nice housing. She doesn't like the way the slum is old and ratty. She dreams of nice houses like what she hears about in the US. I told them I was proud of their dreams. Marcy continued on...she told me that she has been at the school as a sponsored orphan for over 3 years. She came as a 9-year old after her mother died. She told me that 3 years ago she couldn't have dreams. She was trying to survive, and her dreams consisted of thoughts of food and the endless hunger she felt. Because of her sponsors in the US, she was fed, clothed, educated and she felt loved. She said she can change her dreams because of people she doesn't know, yet can still love. It is amazing how small gifts like monthly sponsorship can accomplish big things. That $22 each month that a sponsor sends for these kids really does change a life. Marcy is testament to that. She giggles and laughs like any pre-teen. She has awkward moments and is easily embarrassed like the child she is. But I don't know many 12 year olds that have changed their view of life as much as Marcy has. 

I didn't get to spend enough time with this remarkable girl, but the 2 hours we spent together will be with me forever. I hope all 3 reach their goals. I pray that their sponsors continue to put a priority on them during this tough economy. 

If you want to help, I urge you to sponsor a child through Christian Relief Fund. (www.christianrelieffund.org) There are hundreds of children like Marcy on our waiting list. They currently watch the goings-on at Ring Road from beyond the gate because they aren't sponsored. It breaks my heart to see them look on the activity at the school and want so badly to come in. Maybe their dreams can be changed too.

Chow!

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