Friday, June 10, 2011

The New Deal

Let's see, 3 weeks ago today I had a heated discussion with the boss and quit. The next week I get 3 job offers, but don't take any of them. I decide to look for something a little closer to my heart, and the perfect scenario is brought to me. I think I found something amazing. Let me share with you, and you decide.

So last post I talked about perhaps putting my non-profit passion together with my start-up skills. Well this week I found my new job. It really was created for me. I will be starting a for-profit beverage company with a non-profit affiliation. The non-profit? Not For Sale (www.notforsalecampaign.org). The beverage company? A company that makes and sells ready-to-drink tea made from an herb grown in the rainforest of Peru. Why Peru? Not For Sale has a large project in Peru helping to free sex slaves and then training and counseling them for a better life. Maybe if we start a business based on something of value from the rainforest, we can employ people and pay them fairly so they can make choices about their futures.

This herb is already growing in knowledge and use in the US, and could be uniquely positioned in the beverage market. Also the affinity to Not For Sale will help create the social message we need to drive sales amongst the Millennial age group (you young-uns!). Sorry, I can't reveal what that herb is yet...you will find out soon enough!

I think this is perfect for me...I love the excitement of a start-up, and feel my personality is best suited for the unclear, ever-changing world of start-ups. I don't panic, I usually can find a solution, and I have a great network of contacts. It is also the beverage world, which I know very well, and am experienced in developing both products and brands that consumers enjoy, AND I will be able to start a social enterprise. Three for three. Now I just have to make it work.

If you have anything to offer me as I venture down this path, expect a call or email from me! And for sure stay tuned for more details.

Chow!

Wednesday, May 25, 2011

Turning the page

I started a new chapter in my life yesterday. I decided to end a bad situation turning worse every day by quitting my job after 18 months. I loved the people, the work, and the potential of the company, but I couldn't quite connect with my boss the CEO. We didn't see eye to eye on one very critical factor (in his opinion). Otherwise it was a good job and company. We were getting lots done, meeting objectives, gaining new business, new customers and new opportunities to bid, so that part was okay. He didn't like the fact that I sometimes took time off to get personal business done. I have never been measured by anything other than results, outcomes, and met objectives and have always made companies loads of money, but in this situation he wanted more from me than I could give. He was under the impression that I was gone a lot more than I really was, and wanted me to make a decision about what priorities were at the top of my life. It felt like an ultimatum...decide now on my life's priorities.

Don't get me wrong, I believe in hard work and an honest day's pay, etc. But vacation is up to the discretion of the employee, isn't it? How I use my days off should be my business, and when I use them should be based on when I want to use them, right? I guess not all bosses believe that. So instead of making promises I couldn't live up to, I decided it was better if I left. After a testy email exchange after yet another question about where I was and my loyalty to the company I decided that enough was enough. I went in on Monday and resigned. We discussed things and he tried to make it work by asking me to commit to a 40 hour week. I had already been putting in 45, so I knew it was only a matter of time before 40 turned into 50, and then 60 hours a week. I told him that I could lie to him and say that I would be there 40 hours a week, but in my heart I knew I could not. I have other responsibilities in my life, and sometimes those other duties require me to make them a priority.

I have always been very transparent about those other duties...in fact, when I interviewed I made it clear that I had these "things" going on. Soon after I started, I even gave him a list of those duties along with approximate times I would need to take off work. For example, my board membership with Christian Relief Fund required at least 2 Fridays a year for board meetings, and at least 2 weeks of foreign travel. My advisory and board membership of SmartCup required 4 weekdays a year for board meetings and other unscheduled meetings with investors, banks, trade shows, etc. I also had advisory roles with 2 other small companies that I helped with management and technical problems on that list. So all in all, at least 3 weeks out of the office. Sorry for being busy and trying to help the less fortunate...dang, how rude of me! Out of 4 weeks vacation a year, 3 of them are burned up on business and charitable stuff. No wonder I never get to do anything fun in my life...

So on to my next adventure. I got the best piece of advice from one of my former co-workers. She told me (thanks Shana!) that I should do something that takes my professional talent and combine that with my passion for non-profit work. She thinks I should help non-profits start up for-profit businesses to help fund their work. Hmmm. Great idea.

Saying good-byes are always hard, but as soon as I told him I was done, I felt so free. It felt good; it felt right. And there is no going back for me. I wish my former company and co-workers good luck. There are way bigger problems there than my hours, and hopefully they will find that out soon enough.

Chow!

Sunday, February 20, 2011

Larry at 5-0

On the occasion of my 50th birthday, I write this entry. I have been thinking about this topic long before I turned 50, but at this milestone, I figured I should get it down. I have noticed a not-so-gradual change in my personality...it happened fast, maybe over the last 6 months or so. It is scary. I wonder if everyone goes through these stages of life the same way.

Top Ten List of Changes When You Turn 50

10: I hate ice cold drinks anymore...hurts more than refreshes.
9: I need to slow down when driving at night now.
8: I have accepted that gas is a part of life.
7: I enjoy crossword puzzles.
6: Just to be sure I heard correctly, I ask people to repeat things.
5: I plan things around trips to the bathroom.
4: I actually thought about buying a burial plot.
3: I have been writing my own obituary, but not getting too far on it.
2: My new favorite word is "idiot", and there seem to be a lot more of them around now.
1: I am actually starting to think that velcro shoes are a great idea!

When did I get old? I am becoming what I NEVER thought I would become...a man with limitations. Both physical and non. I can't lift as much, walk as far, or see as well. I am at the twilight of my working career, and that realization is hitting me hard.

I think I now understand what a "mid-life crisis" is. As a young man, you live your life looking forward to milestones of accomplishment. I think the crisis hits when your best milestones are behind you and you start looking back on your accomplishments. Without the dreams to propel you forward, you actually start looking for that feeling of accomplishment in other ways...fast car, new wife, new hairpiece, etc. You buy the best accomplishments your money can afford. Need and common sense have no place in those decisions...you want it, you can afford it, so you get it! I totally understand that now. It might seem ludicrous to your family, but perfectly reasonable to you. I get it! I don't know why I am coveting that new gun...I don't absolutely need it, but I want it, and I have always wanted it...why shouldn't I have it?

At 50, I have few regrets in life. If I had 2 events to relive in my life, I would do them over better, but that isn't bad when I look back. Other than that, I have accomplished way more than what I set out to do. Maybe I didn't dream big enough, but I had no real plan as a young man. I had a philosophy...open doors that are presented to you, and pick the ones that seem to teach you new things. All my decisions, personal and career-oriented were based on that philosophy. God has blessed me with everything accept the ability to "do-over" my mistakes...they are learning events, painful at first, but wholly useful.

I completely understand that saying, "Youth is wasted on the young." I feel like I am just beginning to give back to society and to help the less fortunate. I am running out of time and it bothers me. I want the energy I had as a young man combined with the knowledge that I have as a older man. Strange how life does that to us...just when we get to know ourselves and see our real potential it is time to think about slowing it all down. Maybe I will choose not to. Maybe that mid-life crisis desire can be channeled to do good.

Maybe...

Chow!

Wednesday, November 24, 2010

Thanksgiving Post 2010

Here I am, sitting in a warm house with the lights on, food in the oven, and loved ones on the way home. I have a lot to be thankful for! Each year I try to really dig deep in my soul and discover what I am truly thankful for...not only what, but who as well.

This year I will have a bunch of "whos" to thank.
  1. I am thankful for people in my life who actually do what they say they will do. I have not had too many disappointments in my life. I have been able to count on a ton of people this year. Top of the list is my ever-loving wife, Lori. The rest of the list is pretty long...my family is always there for me. Outside of them I can add to it: Milton, Barbie, Francis, Jared, James, Thomas, Linda, Julie, Chante, Ken, Dave, Shana, Stacey, Rick, Jeff, Mike, Janice, Donna, Donald, Roya, PJ, Candace, Jana, Tom, and John. You all have saved my bacon so often, and I appreciate this quality about you.
  2. I am thankful for a God that seems to never let me down. He sets me up and supports me so that I am able to do what I say I am going to do. I don't feel over-committed, but people say I am crazy to do what I do on a daily basis. I pray that I have not been a disappointment to anyone in my life this year. I try to finish what I start, and I try to say "yes" when I really have the time and energy. I don't know why, but whenever God answers my prayers I am amazed. I should expect it! But "Oh me of little faith" is always so confounded when he answers them. And I ask for ridiculous things for His Kingdom to grow. Maybe that is what always surprises me...
  3. I am thankful for the comfortable environment God has blessed me with. I shouldn't have a worry in the world. I don't worry about where my next meal will come from, or that if I turn a switch I can have heat, light, food, or water...whenever I want it. Knowing that my friends in Kenya can't always count on that, and have to fight daily for survival makes me feel guilty...but I can still be thankful.
Happy Thanksgiving! I wish we could celebrate it everyday because that is just the right way to do it. But once a year makes it special. Please think about all the things in your life that you are thankful for. And go a step further...tell those people you are thankful for them.

Chow!

Sunday, November 14, 2010

Today I left my son after a quick weekend visit. I happened to fly through LA on business and had a few hours to catch up with him. It was nice spending that time with him...I don't get to see him that often anymore. I like looking him in the eyes when we talk...I learn so much more than when we chat on the phone.

He has started his "adult" life now...a job, bills, and the other responsibilities that come with that title. As a parent it is always so hard to see your kids struggle. In their youth it is issues with bullies, schoolwork, sports, or peer relationships, the basic issues of growing up. Now that he is grown, it is about careers, success, financial stability, and his happiness. Like I said, I hate to see my kids struggle. If he is like I was at the same age, it didn't feel like struggling. It was exciting. But now that I look back on my life, my parents were asking me the same types of questions I ask him now..."Do you have enough money? Are you saving anything? Do you need groceries? How's the car running? I didn't realize it then, but I do now. I guess I am worrying about his current life situation. I hate hearing that he is lonely at times and misses the girl he left behind in Ohio. But I can't fix it...I can only listen and worry. I want him so badly to be happy, to find happiness in his new surroundings. He seems happy and he always reassures me that things are okay. I hope so. But in my mind (and pretend world) things could always be better.

His sister causes me worry as well. She says she is feeling "lost" not knowing how her life will be in the near future. She worries that she won't be able to find a good degree that suits her that leads to a career that she will not only love but make tons of money at. I keep reminding her that she is only 19 and shouldn't really know yet. How many sophomores in college know what they want to do in life? But I remember those feelings as well...and then I accidentally fell into my career passion. I believe that if you are too organized then you don't give yourself an opportunity to grow. You never find adventure and opportunity. Too organized = too safe. I have always wanted my kids to discover the world like I was able to. New experiences can help that. Don't be too closed off to new experiences, I tell her.

Her unsettled feelings cause me to worry. I can't help it. Parents always want their kids to have it better than they did. We want them to surpass us in success...but we can't live their lives for them or make their decisions. That is the tough part!

Does this worry ever end? I don't think so because my parents are STILL asking me the types of questions that tell me they still worry about me. Relax Mom and Dad; things are okay! Really they are! (I only wish I could take my own advice!)

Chow!

Monday, July 26, 2010

Week in Eldoret Part II

Wednesday night is when we met our "angel", Simon. Nich and Kyle were playing the guitar outside the dining hall and Simon approached them with some friends. They were talking music, playing a little, singing a little and just enjoying each other's company. The rest of the group came out of the dining hall and joined their little songfest. Simon told us he was a believer and had a song to sing to encourage us. He looked a little like Seal. A childhood accident left half his face a little deformed, but he was still a good looking man. He sounded a little like Seal when he sang as well. It was a hymn we all knew, so we joined along. The crowd still in the dining room watching TV looked out at us in a disapproving way, so we decided to head to a smaller room to continue our impromptu singing. We sang some songs for Simon and his friends, who were there with World Vision for some training on how to handle child abuse. The Africans then helped compose Swahili lyrics for the chorus of one song, Blessed Be Your Name. We then all sang it and decided we would sing it back in the states. Simon was full of encouragement for the work we were doing in Kenya. He had notable things to say, and the kindness in his voice was soothing. Yep, this is how I would describe an angel. More than just a nice guy, this person was encouraging, uplifting, and full of the Holy Spirit. The next night he showed up with thoughtful and very appropriate gifts for each of us. Like he knew us deeply. (Cue spooky music!)

Thursday was supposed to be our long drive to Barwesa, but we thought better of it after the stuck episode earlier in the week. The road to Barwesa was worse than the one we got stuck on. The people of Barwesa were expecting us, and were disappointed that we would not make the party we were sponsoring in their honor. Francis decided to send some of his representatives, so we got them travel funds and a few gifts to honor the tribal elders and their wives. We heard later that there were over 1000 people there to help us celebrate peace and an end to their fighting and famine. Wish we could have been there. The guys that went ended up stuck for days because the roads got washed out during the rain that wasn't supposed to fall. They also got a little sick from something they ate...like I said, a better decision to stay.

Our last day was spent at two projects: Barnabas' Posho mill (flour mill), and Kamoisie, another CRF Center where kids are sponsored, fed, educated and cared for. Barnabas' flour mill was built through a micro finance loan. It is his pride and joy! Prior to building this mill, Barnabas' wife and neighbors had to walk up to 5 km each way every day to get corn ground for supper. That burns up a lot of time and energy for those that do that chore, mainly children and women. The local posho mill means more time spent at home rather than on the dangerous roads. Barnabas charges 7 shillings per kilo of corn. It coincides with the wholesale price of a chicken egg. People barter all over Kenya. Eggs can then be sold for 25-30 shillings a piece at the market. It will take him 3 years to pay off the loan, one egg at a time. His other pride and joy is the new church built on his property. Barnabas tithed part of his plot to the church to build a new building. It is a simple structure, but full of peace. It was very contemplative to be in that building surrounded by farm plots. His plot is barely an acre, but the corn was high and healthy. Barnabas and some of his neighbors took advantage of our farmer cooperative, another microfinance project. For $50, we can provide a farming family seed and fertilizer to grow an acre of crops. Our payment at harvest is 2 bags of whatever grain or crop is sold. The bags of grain are then sold when the price is higher (later in the year). Payback is at worst break-even, and at best it will double. This is our second year of this experiment. The steady rains have the corn really high and with double ears per stalk! We also heard about a widow nearby with four small children, so we set off to visit. We found her home and met the children, but the mom was out scrounging up some food and was not home. We left some money with Barnabas to help her out. Barnabas then hosted us for lunch. His 8 months pregnant wife Christine waited on us hand and foot. She refused help of any kind. They think she is pregnant with twins. Kenyan women are tough, strong, and can do anything! On our way back to the guesthouse we stopped by another farmer's plot, and also saw Francis' new house being built. He also took a loan to build this house so he can rent out his other house further out of town. It will be a nice, quiet place in the country to raise 3 boys.

Thursday night we spent at our favorite restaurant...The Siam Restaurant. This time I got to go and I met the Chinese owner...Mrs. Yu. She told me about her daughter who was going to Duke University in Raleigh. Her daughter speaks Chinese, English, French and Swahili fluently. Her 14 year old son is more African than Chinese, she says. We have a nice conversation before the food started arriving. Chinese food in Kenya is authentic, tasty, and the most expensive meal you will have...in comparison. It is still relatively inexpensive for westerners, but way out of the average Kenyan's income. The Africans love the food, and it is their favorite choice. It was Keven and Alicia's wedding anniversary so the Africans sang them a traditional Kalinget wedding song. The words basically mean that the community all agrees with the union and give it their blessing. It was a beautiful song, and I like the fact that the community has a say in your relationship. It must be because the community really relies on each member helping out. A good partnership marriage ensures a better, harder-working community and all benefit. Maybe we should try that in the US...instead of soaking up resources, marriages should contribute to the community. The Renovo group also presented me with a beautiful painting of Africa and a well-written Thank You card. They appreciated the work I put in organizing the trip and making sure they saw, heard, tasted, smelled, and connected with Africa. I am glad the trip is a success in their eyes.

Morning came early as we packed and headed to the airport. Francis, Mzei Paul, Ibrahm, Barnabas and Wilson Melly came by to wish us all a farewell. We spoke of gratitude, hope, friendship, and promised to return. We prayed for unity, blessings on the work, and safe travels for us. As usual, tears fall and hugs abound. Airport security would not let them pass through, so we had to rush a good bye in the street! Luckily we had already said our farewells earlier. We couldn't believe we were on our way home! Our flight to Nairobi was uneventful.

No sooner had we landed and there was Thomas Murai outside waiting for us. He had arranged for us to store our baggage at the luggage hold area, and had also arranged a matatu for our use. He wanted to take us to the Masai Market, a tourists mecca for souvenir shopping. Oh, Thomas is my cousin Candice's new father-in-law. I had just met him at her wedding to his son, Michael. At the wedding he insisted that we call him. He is a very generous man. He refused to take money for the matatu, which is not cheap! He also bought me lunch and took over half a day off to host us...many of whom he had never met! I owe him a big one! Thanks so much Thomas!

The Masai Market is as promised...row upon row of vendors. They are used to Japanese tourists who don't haggle, so they start their prices about 10 times higher than what is should sell for. Once they figure out that you know what you are doing, the prices drop drastically. I found a few Ethiopian silver crosses and a star of David for my Jewish co-worker. Ethiopia was the first African country for both Judaism and Christianity. I bought a couple of cool beaded necklaces, an Urungu for Thomas made of ebony, and an antelope horn vuvuzela! Score! Our flight to Brussels was not scheduled to depart until 10:40 pm, so we could take our time. Traffic was terrible, but we made it back to the airport by 6 pm. We collected our bags and checked in. Then we wandered the Nairobi airport shopping in the duty free stores!

I slept the entire flight to Brussels. I couldn't tell you if anything interesting happened! We had a 5 hour layover, and a few of our group wanted to go into town. Five ended up going into town for a quick look-see. The group that stayed were treated to a huge breakfast of fried eggs, roasted tomato, nice bread, coffee and bacon! I decided to risk it, and bought a box of Cuban cigars...Romeo and Juliettas, my favorite! Everyone else bought chocolate. It was an uneventful flight to Washington, DC...I watched 3 movies and read some. As soon as we landed in the US, everyone pulled out their cell phones to call their loved ones. We made it through customs with no problems...whew! AFTER clearing customs, I shared a few cigars with Keven, who promised to keep his mouth shut about my illicit activity.

On our last leg home, I was reflecting on my 2 weeks...What had I learned? I always learn something profound when I go. This time it was about simplicity. The Africans believe a simpler gospel than I do. They read a simpler Bible, too. My gospel needs to be explained thoroughly. My Bible needs interpretation and exejesis to understand it the right way. My friends in Africa read the word and do it...nothing more, nothing less. They are the ones with true religious freedom. They speak and live a more 1st century version of Christianity than I do. They preach Jesus the Savior and feed hungry people. I think that is why I love it so much when I am there. Read the word, hear the word, obey the word. See the need and meet it. Love unconditionally. Show generosity. Give openly. Help always.

I am glad to be home, but I miss Africa already. Who is going with me next year on our medical mission trip?

Chow!

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Our Week in Eldoret...Part 1

It was rough not having internet for almost a week in Eldoret. I kept my journal going so I would have notes for this blog, but with the mess of unpacking, I am not sure where it is, so I will do my best to capture the highlights from my fading, boomer memory...just let me say that the best memories were spontaneous moments where the holy spirit moved us and the Kenyans we met with. I actually believe we met an angel named Simon at our guesthouse one night. If he wasn't an angel, he is the closest I have ever come to meeting one. Full of the spirit, love, kindness and encouragement, he filled us up with joy and praise for God. Amazing is the best word to use. That word keeps coming up...I am sorry for overusing it, but it fits so well.

Our trip to Eldoret started at the Nakumat supercenter. You all should be familiar with that place by now. It is a good meeting place because everyone knows where it is. Our hosts in Kisumu picked us up from the Le Savanna Guesthouse and took us souvenir shopping in the morning, and then we met our Eldoret host and a matatu at the Nakumat.

Souvenir shopping was fun as usual. I have created a haggling monster in Chante. Originally fearful of haggling she was afraid she would hurt their feelings and insult the vendors. I told her over and over that they would not sell to you if they didn't want to. She took that to heart, and after early success, she proved to be better than the teacher in her abilities to get great prices. We shopped for a couple of hours, picking up loads of souvenirs. I am at the point where I look for special things...unusual things. This time I was able to find some unique crosses. I like collecting handmade crosses from the countries I visit. These crucifixes were carved from branches that had the shape of a cross naturally. The woodworker carved a face, hands, body, legs, etc. of Jesus into the branch. Crude, but beautiful. The vendor happened to be someone we knew, so he knows our price limits. He was able to find 3 different versions for me...he sold me 2 and gifted me one. You know what they say...if you get a gift from the vendor, it means you just paid too much! I also found a cool nativity set carved out of one chunk of wood. A section of a thick branch trunk is carved to have Mary, Joseph and baby Jesus appear when you unfold the trunk's 3 pieces. Everyone shopped like crazy. It was fun.

Lunch followed shopping at the Mon Ami restaurant outside the Nakumat. We met Francis at the auto repair shop next door. Uh oh, car trouble? He was just having the axle checked. We loaded his Landcruiser with our luggage and 4 bodies. The rest went into the matatu with the rest of our group. The drive to Eldoret is beautiful...especially when the area gets rain. Lush forests, farms and hillsides fill our camera memory cards. Eldoret is Northwest of Kisumu, and is the farming belt of Kenya. It sits on a plateau that separates the Nyanza and Rift Valleys. We saw sugarcane in the lowlands and as we climbed in elevation those plantations gave way to coffee and tea plantations. The tea fields are beautiful, lush, and verdant. The matatu was overheating and had to make unscheduled stops to cool down. On one of those stops the landcruiser I was riding in was about 2 miles ahead. We decided to stop on the side of the road and wait for the van. We were sitting in the truck listening to music, when some school kids heading home decided to hang out and stare at us. They would stare, and when we looked at them, they would look away and giggle. I think this is the first time to see westerners for a couple of them. Chante wanted to give them something and I happened to have a bag of candy just for this type of occasion. That brought them closer, and started some conversation. Kyle dragged out his two drums and one of the boys asked to play them. He was amazing!! He must have learned a little watching his dad or other older men at some point. One of the girls kept rhythm while he pounded away. Music is the easiest way to break down walls that separate people from each other, and Kyle is great at using music to connect us to locals. That is how we met our angel, Simon as well. But that comes later.

Our first stop is to check into our guesthouse for the week. The Reformed Church Guesthouse is surprisingly clean. The rooms each have a bathroom (in various states of repair), and the beds are comfortable. There is a large contingent of Dutch teenagers here on a mission trip, but they have zero awareness of others when it came to consideration...they were loud at night and in the wee early hours of the morning. Luckily they only stayed one night more and left on safari. We happened to see them in Nairobi on our way out as well.

We had a delicious dinner in the guesthouse dining room that first night and met the cook. Professionally trained, Erik knew how to use spices in Kenyan cooking. His tomato soup/sauce was delicious! He came out to meet us, and the group told him that I was a big time food person in the US...so we talked recipes that used Kenyan basics with western flair for a few minutes. He promised to try some of them for us while we were there. His favorite idea was fried leftover ugali...the cornmeal doughball that is the national dish of Kenya. Locals eat it fresh, and the chickens usually get the tough leftovers. I want to treat it like thick polenta and fry the leftovers in the morning. Erik made that dish one day for lunch, but unfortunately we weren't around. But his cooking was the best we have had in the area of traditional Kenyan cooking.

We spent Tuesday meeting all the ECAN (Eldoret Christian Aid Network) center managers and hearing about their centers. It was 4 hours of meetings. After lunch we broke up into groups to visit CRF projects in the area. My team (Melanie, Ericka and I) went out (way out as it turned out) to a remote center. It is so remote we prayed that the rains would stay away to keep the roads passable. As we headed out, I knew why. The roads are packed clay, and in the rain that clay turns slick. We were also heading up and down large hills that would be treacherous in the rain. As we were heading out further and further into the country-side, I casually mentioned that it seemed very remote. Ericka asked me where my sense of adventure was. I replied that I was too old for adventure.

As we pulled into the church, we were greeted by a contingent of old women clapping and singing to us. Each greeted us warmly and continued their singing. It was very moving. We arrived while the kids were still in school, so we headed into the church building (a tin shack!) to continue singing, praising and to give introductions. The hospitality of Kenyans is amazing. We have a few things to learn. They share their best and are always warm in their greeting and treatment of strangers. We seem to be suspicious of people we don't know and tend to shun strangers. The church had a dirt floor and was basically wood poles covered by corrugated tin sheets. We were in the middle of making introductions when lightning and thunder interrupted us. It started raining so hard that we couldn't hear anything. Francis gave me a look that worried me. He wanted to leave immediately because of the roads. The people wanted us to stay and have tea with them. We decided to pray and leave as soon as possible.

Our trip back was the adventure of a lifetime. The roads were so slick we got stuck numerous times. The first time was right outside the church...the locals pushed us out of the mud and we kept going. The second time was down at the bottom of the first small hill. We were stuck good. Francis gunned the Landcruiser and covered it with mud from the wash! Some of the locals followed us down and tried to help us, but we were stuck. We cut branches to stick under the wheels and we found a rope (like thick twine) to pull us out. 10 locals were able to pull us through the muck. They also pulled us up a large hill, and down another. We finally got totally stuck in the ditch on the last hill. No amount of pulling, pushing, rocking, or praying got us out. Ericka was worried and wanted to walk out. I was kidding and asked her where her spirit of adventure was now. She laughed and said she just wanted us to make it back! Someone knew of a tractor nearby and went to call the owner. An hour later he showed up with a small Ford tractor and length of chain. Ericka and Melanie cheered, but I was a little quiet. I wasn't sure a tractor could pull us out, and initially I was right when the tractor got stuck in the same ditch! But with human power and the tractor we finally got unstuck. I was covered in mud after helping push the truck. It was crazy...for a while I wasn't sure we would make it that night, but we did get out. I threw money at the tractor driver and the crowd that helped us, I was so relieved. The ride back to town was quiet as we considered how lucky we were to get out. Well not quite luck...the help of strangers to spend their entire afternoon getting filthy dirty to help fellow Christians. I was grateful for their willingness to help with zero thought of payment for services rendered. We ended up getting back at 9 pm...5 hours after starting our return journey. We spent an hour getting there, 30 minutes there, and hours getting back. Ugh. I spent an hour cleaning my shoes, and decided to throw away my pants, shirt and socks. I put them out on the railing outside my room to let them dry. I also wanted to show the group how dirty I had gotten...they were out having Chinese dinner, which I heard was awesome.

The next morning my pants and socks were gone! The gardener told me he had washed them for me...what a gentleman. He was about my size so I gave them to him. He was very thankful and appreciative of my castoffs.

Today we would spend at the Milton Jones Eagle's Academy. We met the kids in the morning and spent the morning in their classes to see what they were learning. I got the 1st graders...wow, am I impressed. All of them can read in English at a level better than American 1st graders. They are so smart and the curriculum so innovative! The way they learn is fun and engaging. Plus Kenyan children are respectful of their teachers and very helpful. They are quiet in class and very obedient. I haven't seen that much in the US. I see kids that are catered to and not given very high expectations of acceptable classroom behavior.

The afternoon was an assembly...the children performed skits (the forming of the school), sang songs, and read their poems to us. They also played games and danced for us. We returned the favor and sang them some songs and danced with them as well. It was a great day.

More to come! Stay tuned!

Chow!